Tuesday 7 January 2014

Teenage post

Teenage age a very unique name having a unique meaning.Teenage word even say its meaning teen means small or delicate so the teenage age is also known as delicate age.During this time we all hear a common thing from each and every guardian "these is the age where you need to stable otherwise your whole life would be waste" does this the words have any meaning for teenagers this words are useless for them as  teenage is only the time where the ego of the person comes out from his or her consolation ."EGO" a very great word the more the faith people had the more it destroy his or her life.EGO is more powerful and cheapest than any other weapon in this world to destroy any life as it doesn’t need any material to destroy life as well as it gives  very horror dead.Teenagers are right that their is no use of this words and even if they are right than what’s big deal suicide is always option but when they go to quit or to do suicide the courage needed for it can never be with them because if they would have that courage  they would have study first and even if they quit what the problem world have with it some of them will cry for somedays not some of them only their parents or brother or sister but that also for few days around 1 month than they will continue with their routine life.So what the use of it,if they would never quit and try to find any alternative than they would surely get the solution.Solution to the problem,solution of ourselves,solution of world.

Teenage is the time where person starts to feel love.Half of the problem faced by the teenager is due to love.Love a very interesting topic or the evil side of the teenage acting as hero.Not only love but also evil things or wrong things is the hero of the teenage life.But these hero’s are the destroyer teenager  came to know after crossing teenage it is same as importance of parents is only be know after leaving them.love a very interesting topic maximum teenager wants bf/gf in life ,even they know that can not be couple.Actually the thing is that the person who have gf/bf either they are doing time pass or they have the fear that in future they can not have good life partner but they never know that world it to big and surely they will get someone in life who is just made for them.This was all about love but it has major side effect lonelyness or being devdas,failure in study,destroying body and many more ,falling in love is same as calling bull and saying him  hit me.But what is true love? first of all true love cannot be known by the person who are in love with each other,when you fall in love you don’t let your life partner to do wrong thing if you love him truly,if he/she has done something wrong instead of hiding it you will show to each and every person so that he/she can be careful and can not walk through the wrong path again well true love has very big define but if you want to enjoy the life you alone can only enjoy it or with your besties instead of falling in love and feeling bad and hurt.True love in today’s world can only be seen in your parents.Today’s parents are crazy about you and that’s what they make mistake.Their love have give you the right to follow the wrong path.Be single, be happy.But it was all about both sided love,but when it is one sided love what the person feels is just unexpressable a huge sorrow,a huge pain in heart but they should understand that their is someone who can love them more than anyone else.They should know that life never ends here there are more beautiful things in world than love. True Love neither true friendship see colour,size,abilities,body,fitness true love finds its way by own.That’s why the big persons or celebrities don’t have long relationship.
The second common problem of every teenager is their parents.Parents play important role in teenager life as this is the time where the child get introduce to outside world as after entering teenage child start thinkings beyond the childish level.But this only the time where all there gurdians became their enemy.This generation is really good for nothing as they try to judge the people on their own
what true or what false they decide it by there own thinking this is only the thing they never know what is good for them is the decision which they decide on there own.It’s even not wrong that parents understand them less but this is also the thing when they tried to understand their parent they always try to do what they like,so the parent also do what they like.If they try to understand their parents they will feel that they are not wrong but this can only be done when they put there legs in their shoe or they can only understand their parent when they start thinking or  by creating the situation in which their parents have forced them to follow their order and after creating the same situation if parents or understanding them fully or by putting them in their parent place and then they put themselves in their parents place they will also get the solution that what to do next.I will only say that do what you like but first try to convince your parents but not with the wrong methods try to make understand them what your problem is even though they are not ready just say them "you are my parents and i know you will never want bad for me so i am ready to do what you but even though i would like to do the same but if you can  change your mind,I would be happy or not than i am ready to do it but i tells you that i will not be happy while doing this thing" and just do it and leave everything in the hands of god time will surely heal your problem but try to explain your problem more clearly to your parents and that even with very soft tone.But when we get somewhat detach to our parents we just go close to our friends thinking that they understand you better but no one can understand you more better than your parents.Friends are really important in our life but i would like to have single friend which understand me more better than having lots of fake friends.

But sometimes this friends also leave us alone,than only one can help you which is your family.Sometime due to family you get detach from your friends and you feel you are alone in this world and you also feels that you are the only person who have problem in life and all have happy life but it is nothing like that every one have problem but what they do is they never react as much as you react and sometime afterwards you came to know that their was nothing to react.Problem is the life and in this world you will come across many people who always have their self interest in having friendship with you but when you came to know this you get hurt so if you want that luck should be with you  or you want to be happy in life so don’t expect anything from others so you will be always happy as you don’t expect anything from other if they do anything for you than you will be happy or suprise as you have expect nill from them and they gave you something.It is very common why you feel bad because you expect something and you don’t get, so never expect anything from people around you.life is only once so live the life what you want,do in life what you want not people wants here people around us is fully self-interested,be what you want not your parents wants try to explain them.

Start following your own dreams otherwise someone one would hire to build their dreams.Dreams come true only when you walk through it.live,laugh be happy,be sad,cry,have pain because this is  life which you will never again just at night have a walk in the noiseless  side living your all belonging such as tension, mobile, stress etc. while walking you will be at the one of the best place in World and feel one of the best feeling ever.......

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